Thursday, February 25, 2016

The Convenience of Ingratitude

On January 28, I traded my wife’s Malibu in for a newer used car with a fraction of the miles – and a piece of factory warranty still remaining. As I drove the Camry around town with my baby daughter in the back seat asleep and the salesman discussing the vehicle, I discovered that I would lose some technology – and that big V6 engine - if we made the deal. For example, Toyota does not offer remote start and this car was the final year that backup cameras were optional as are navigation and satellite radio. Also, our monthly payments would increase nearly eighty dollars from what we were paying on the Chevrolet.
Momma's new ride - 2013 Toyota Camry SE. For some reason, I really like red cars. 

My wife still couldn’t grasp being without a remote starter for those cold winter mornings and hot summer afternoons. God had protected us for the past two years through rain, sleet, snow, and bad drivers along with saving us from having to purchase new low-profile tires that would have certainly blown a hole through our budget. To no longer be able to start the car from the bathroom showed that I had become ungrateful for what was a small thing:  in that instant, I saw how quickly I could become an ingrate to God. The same Father who did not spare His own Son for my salvation had spared my wife and daughter (and friends) in a miraculous fashion!

While I was slightly disappointed in not getting a better deal, I had to consider the price of peace of mind for my wife and daughter every time they got into the car; that peace outweighed losing a few convenience features.



Friday, February 12, 2016

1YL

For the uninformed, 1YL is shorthand for one year later. I think everyone who has followed Caeli’s life story from birth has seen the pictures, read the blog, and/or shown some empathy and love along the way. Admittedly, not every day was easy and by the grace of God, we got through them all. Instead of blasting your walls with cuteness overload, I’ve chosen one picture per blog link for where we were throughout the journey in the NICU as well as the one in the Dub Shack. Will I ever put this thing in paperback format? I doubt it solely because of time constraints. Besides, being her daddy is way too much fun to slow down and think about ways to make a profit from that roller coaster.

Click on the captions below the pictures and they will take you to any of the 27 chapters of the Dad Chronicles.  

A Letter To Baby Caeli
The Moment Dude Became Dad

There are too many of you to shout out individually, so here’s a HUUUUUUUGE thank-you for being you.
The cutest, blackest baby picture in mankind

God bless, we’re out.
Happy Birthday Caeli!

-          The C. Armstrong Family – Cedric, Chastity and Caeli


Thursday, February 4, 2016

I'll See You Again

About two weeks ago, one of my younger brothers from childhood passed away due to injuries suffered from an automobile accident at the age of 28. While reading all of the posts via social media about the positive impact Terrance made upon so many lives, I chose to sit back and rewind the memories of him singing in the youth choir; watching him play high school football; having him as a student during that first year as a substitute teacher (as I was working on my certification) and realizing he was wearing the same gray Nautica polo shirt I bought years ago as a high school senior; chuckling with him at his brother’s wedding; keeping up with our lives through Facebook; and so many other moments throughout the years. The separation is tough, yet we share a comfort that we will see him again in eternity.

While life tends to pull people away, God is always near.

We’ve experienced separation from our loved ones:  For example, I accepted a teaching job a decade ago that took me across the country far away from any relatives or friends I may have known prior. A child goes off to school or military service in another state or nation. Our busy lives tend to pull us in every direction with families, jobs, civic and church obligations, and putting out home fires that continuing communication beyond a quick text message or tweet or the occasional Face Time is pushed by the wayside. We have Skype, but we don’t have time for face-to-face interaction anymore. 

We are here, and they are there. Also, let’s not forget the separation of death.

As believers in Christ, we have the promise that we are never alone. Although we ache from the departure of one brother, He has not gone anywhere – He is right here, now, always, and forever. In John 16:20, Jesus told the disciples “Verily, verily, I say unto you, That ye shall weep and lament, but the world shall rejoice:  and ye shall be sorrowful, but your sorrow shall be turned into joy.”  He also promised to never leave nor forsake us in Hebrews 13:5.

The rapper Wiz Khalifa penned this chorus for the Fast and Furious 7 movie soundtrack:  “It's been a long day, without you my friend/And I'll tell you all about it when I see you again/We’ve come a long way from where we began/But I’ll tell you all about it when I see you again.” It is during that separation that Jesus assures us that we will see Him again for He never abandons or forgets His own.