Note: Years ago, I did a phone interview with my paternal grandparents Claude and Beaulah Armstrong. In their memories, I found this file and decided to share with the world what their lives were like and the memories that we will always honor and cherish. - The Family
Like
most people, our senior citizens love to talk about how life once was and the
changes that have occurred during their lifetimes. They all have experiences that perhaps will
be never be shared again; in their younger years, there was no email, no
compact disc players, nor any of the "necessities" of our time. As a matter of fact, Webster defined a
computer as " a person who performed calculations"! Some people made
it through high school and college, while others headed to the cotton fields to
work after school because having an education was a luxury. Both of my
grandparents, Claude and Beaulah Armstrong, lived through that era and
amazingly, both say we as today's generation should be grateful for what we
have.
Claude
Armstrong was born October 13, 1916 - during the climax of World War I - to a
poor tenant farming family in rural Faulkner County. He is the youngest of
seven and is the only one still living. At an early age he realized the value
of hard work, which he has successfully instilled in his three children and
many grandchildren; otherwise, he said, the family would not have made it
through the rough times. Unfortunately, he had to quit high school at the
segregated Pine Street School in Conway in order to work in the fields and take
care of home. When he turned eighteen, Claude enlisted in the Air Force as a
pilot where he trained in Florida for thirteen months. It was at this time he
finally started to really see the world by flight; by that time President
Hoover was on his way to death ("he didn't know anything about fighting,
he wasn't worth much" - Grandpa). His journeys took him to California,
India, and Australia, where he played baseball and won that country's World Series!
Quite an athlete, especially in such a racially divided world!
Technology
wise, the radio to have was a Bacharach; all the listener had to do was charge
it was not on. The television was not invented until 1956, but its presence was
huge in the house; he had moved into the home where he is still living at the
previous year. As far as radio, Claude
didn't listen to it often enough to pick a favorite program. The first
automobile he remembered driving was a Dodge coupe, which he recalled was used
exclusively for going to church. Also, he served in World War II; again, he was
a fighter pilot. This time, he was stationed in India for 23 months after
leaving Fort Smith. Interestingly enough, he actually liked war and its very
idea; he enjoyed shooting up the bad guys because once they would quit, that
would be all for the particular time. At first, war was pretty dangerous since
he didn't know where shots were coming from, but it eventually became an
everyday thing. The amazing thing was he never was hurt despite all the carnage
surrounding.
About
some of the great American leaders, his responses were favorable of all except
President Hoover, who didn't know anything about war. Roosevelt was "a
good guy who did a lot for his country and kept it stable"; Kennedy was a
young man who turned out to be a great President but was simply not recognized
during the war. Martin Luther King, in his words, "did a lot for Black
people...and all people as well, paving a way for Blacks and Whites to mingle
and live together". His advice to us:
Get an education because that can take you far in life and it gives the
qualifications to do things, such as fly.
My
grandmother, Beaulah Armstrong, does not fit the age criteria, but her life is
also valued. She was born January 26, 1924 in Faulkner County to another family
of sharecroppers. Life in Arkansas, like
the rest of the Black South, was rough, so she moved to Atkins, Arkansas as a
child to work with the family to make ends meet by picking cotton in the
fields. Atkins is a small town today, so imagine life there before 1935; there
was nothing huge as far as social events were concerned. In contrast to our
marriages, she married at the age of fifteen! People centered their lives
around picking cotton, eating, attending church, and listening to the radio
programs. Grandma recalled having to go outside when her mother wanted to hear
her program so she could have quiet time to herself. Beaulah's teenage years
other than the marriage were normal; work as a maid to acquire enough money to
support the family and riding in a Ford Model T her parents owned. Work came
first, then pleasure...if there was time for any. Unfortunately, she never did
get to fly on an airplane but has seen 'a bunch' of them fly over the house and
at the local airport.
About
the great American leaders, Grandma did not remember President Hoover for
anything other the dam; Roosevelt was "a good, stable President especially
when times were rough"; John F. Kennedy was "pretty good, he improved
the country enough"; and Martin Luther King was wonderful, saying "he
overcame"! Pearl Harbor did not affect her as much because time were
already rough around the county as well as the rest of America. Her advice: Be grateful for what you have and you'll do
fine. Working and living this long has taught her to work for everything and be
proud.
My
grandparents, as well as anyone else who lived through the Twenties, Great
Depression, World War II, and the baby boom, could tell us of a different time,
one of working in the fields, hatred toward foreigners, and in the case of
African-Americans, living with Jim Crow laws. There were no compact disc
players, no antilock brakes, and televisions were in their infancy as late as
the Fifties; meaning the church was truly the center of small towns and in
general, the lifeline that kept people going. Where all that "Southern
hospitality" went is unknown, but the spirit of giving thanks for what we
have is still prevalent in the family. Their hard work and efforts instilled in
all of us the true value of 'getting paid'.
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